Managing Everyday Anxiety

In its simplest terms, anxiety is defined as your body's natural response to imminent threat or danger, or to an event or circumstances with an uncertain outcome.   It's what you feel when your body gets ready to fight back or run away. 

Anxiety becomes a problem, however, when you are anxious and nervous without an actual threat or danger, your body stays in a hyperaroused mode, and the anxiety takes over your life.  That's when it's time to get help. 

People with anxiety disorders can learn how to change their thoughts and behaviors so they can live happy, productive, fulfilling lives as a result of working with a mental health professional who specializes in treating anxiety.

This 2-minute video does an excellent job at explaining the difference between everyday anxiety and anxiety disorders. 

Our focus, however, is anxiety of the everyday type, and how best to manage it.

We all know what anxiety feels like. Our heart pounds before a big presentation or an exam in our toughest class. We get butterflies in our stomach during a blind date. We worry over family problems or feel jittery at the thought of asking the boss for a raise.  And while any of these circumstances can certainly be cause for worry, they are finite, which means that there's a specific ending to the event. 

For example, once your presentation or exam is over, the anxiety subsides and you begin to feel better.  But the time leading up to the event or circumstance is where people suffer from the ravages of anxiety:  headache, stomach ache, diarrhea, feeling nervous and jittery, restlessness, sweating, irritability, difficulty concentrating and sleeping.  These are all caused by the release of stress hormones called cortisol and adrenaline. 

How can we manage our anxiety so we can tackle the task we're so worried or nervous about?  Here are six ways to get you started.

1.  Exercise.  The best way to burn off the stress hormones is to get moving on a regular basis.  Even a walk around the block or dancing can make you feel better.

Whatever it takes.

2.  Rest.  Getting adequate rest is essential for managing anxiety and to improve your overall health. If you're having trouble sleeping, it could be remedied in a number of ways, not the least of which is establishing a bedtime routine and sticking to it.  Turn off the TV, computer and cell phone; these are distracting and actually rev you up.  Take a shower, read, listen to soothing music.  Go to bed at the same time every night and wake up at the same time every morning. 

3.  Positive mindset.  How you feel and behave is directly related to how you think.  Research has shown that people who imagine a positive, realistic outcome of an upcoming event have less anxiety and tend to perform better at the task, which often results in a positive outcome! 

As you prepare for a stressful event, imagine that it's going to go the way you hope it will...and begin to believe it will, too.  Imagine getting an A on the exam or presentation.  The blind date goes well.  The boss gives you the raise. 

Having a positive outlook actually will make you feel less anxious, and has the added benefit of providing you with the mental and physical energy you need to perform at your best.

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4.  Relax.  Find a way to give your mind and body rest from the worry.  What will work for you...Is it taking the dog for a walk?  Stretching out in a recliner?  Sitting quietly and breathing deeply?  Having a glass of wine with a friend or a beer with your buddies?  Taking a bath?  Reading?  Spending an afternoon in Lake George?

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5.  Assess the event/situation accurately and realistically.  When you think an event or situation is more important, more dangerous or more negative than it actually is raises your anxiety.  As mentioned above, how you think impacts how you feel and behave.  So take a look at what you're facing on a broader scale...will the world actually end if you don't get an A on the exam?  Will you never go out again if the blind date doesn't work out?  Will your life be forever ruined if you don't get the job you're interviewing for?



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 6.  Put down the junk food.  Although it's tempting to grab your go-to comfort foods when you're anxious (mine is mac and cheese), your body is an engine that needs good, clean, food in its natural form for fuel.  Fruits, veggies, lean protein and whole grains will not only make you look and feel better, they will raise your metabolism so it can burn off stress hormones quickly and efficiently.

There you have it.  Anxiety can be managed so you can get through those difficult times and circumstances with your mental and physical health intact.  If you find that these tips don't help, make an appointment to meet with a counselor right away so you can learn other ways to better manage it.

QUESTION:  How do YOU manage your anxiety? 

 

(c) 2011 Robyn M. Posson